I started this blog as a way to cope with my Mother's physical illness and dementia. She died right before Christmas, 2011 and the focus moved toward losing a loved one. This blog has proved to be a great outlet for me to revisit the last 7 months of her life. Dealing with the pain has been hard. Writing down my memories and frustration seems to have helped me let it go a bit. It has not be an easy thing to do but I hope that has managed to provide a bit of comfort for someone who is dealing with this now. It proved to be a lot harder than I even imagined to keep up with this blog, I have so many entries that I wrote but never published - they just didn't feel right.
I have tried to be honest with my feelings even though I am not proud of how I handled my situation at times. She was an incredible lady and I hope some of her personality before the dementia came through.
Everyone deals with the decline of a loved one in different ways. My writing is based on how I dealt with my Mother's decline. Other people may share my viewpoint and may have experienced similar feelings, or maybe you think that I am so wrong to have felt that way.
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We spent a little time the other day talking to a neighbor who is taking care of her Mother. My husband and I had no problem relating to her situation. Our conversation brought back many not so distant memories.
My daughter and I are in Alabama visiting my sister and her family this weekend. My Mother is no longer with us but memories of her are everywhere. As I was packing to go, I remembered that my Mom would … Continue reading
The five stages of grief are denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. But the experience with my Mother made me realize that you can also go through these stages when your life changes dramatically. My Mother’s care was taking more and more of … Continue reading
One of the sources I plan to use in this blog are my text messages to my husband and family. They provide a real time look back at what was going on in my Mother’s life and the struggles we … Continue reading
May of last year was the last “normal”month of my Mom’s life. She was living alone in her house with frequent (2 to 3 times a day) visits from me to check on her. She was messy and it sometimes looked … Continue reading
Today is the 3 month anniversary of my Mother’s death. She was under hospice care since June, I knew her death was coming but I still was not prepared to lose her. Logical thinkers looked at her declining medical condition and realized that she … Continue reading